Fate or force?

Humans believe whatever happens to a person is in his destiny, that it is decided by the stars, that it is written. 
Why, then, do we struggle so hard to change things, to make them right? 

One thing that is known to me today is one should not ever push, ever force. If something is falling apart, make sure the reason is not you. If it's not you, know that it's the end. Everything has an end, after all. It's not giving up, it's knowing how the world works.

 This world doesn't let anything last forever, nothing does. This world, however, will surely provide you with better things once the old one is dead and gone. When something ends, someone leaves , they don't create an absence, they don't make you own less. Instead, they create a vacancy for something better to come. It's always better. Sometimes, yes, the delivery is a little late. So late that you start loosing hope but you should remember, the stars have planned it. The universe is conspiring for you. There is someone out there meant to love you more than pizza. There is happiness you'll receive without listening to your favorite song. There is satisfaction you'll have without orgasm. You are meant to get all those things. You are meant to be happy. You have a story of your own and you are the leading cast.

All it takes is patience and faith. Because when you force, when you try changing the story line by not letting go or by not letting in , you are taking yourself farther from your own winning cup. You don't always have to soulder on. You don't always have to struggle. 

Sometimes, letting your fate, letting the circumstances take control delivers you to the best of the days.

Maudita Singh.